Without face-to-face communication, the art of your speech becomes quite basilical. How can you use some techniques to make your online dating process more smoothly?
Choose a right communication topic
When starting a chat on an online hookup app, you must choose the right topic to talk about. You know it's very inappropriate to talk about sensitive topics such as politics or religion. So avoid sensitive and embarrassing topics. You can start a conversation with strangers on a very relaxed and pleasant topic, which will make them less defensive, so as to speed up the dating process between you. This topic can also be deep, interesting, or something you just came up with that no one else has talked about recently. Avoid embarrassment anyway. Because online dating and chatting is easy, but also easy to be strangled in the cradle because of your inappropriate words. Once the other party does not reply to you, then you and he can not continue to communicate. Then you have to change your target.
Ask questions based on the photos on their profiles.
When you are in contact with someone for the first time, they may not trust you. At this time, you can ask some "yes" or "no" questions, because the other party only need to make some choices. After you get to know each other, you can ask some open questions, which will deepen your communication and make it easier for you to meet each other tonight. You can ask them what they are doing after work, what sports they are most interested in, and so on.
Respond to messages in time
Nobody likes to wait in this fast-paced world. So, if a person responds your message for a very long time, you will lose interest in the person. Therefore, it's very important to reply to the messages in time. When you respond to a person's message quickly, it will make the other person feel that you care about this matter, which will deepen the impression and favor of others on you.
In the next article, I'll introduce some other communication skills to help you promote your one night dating. Whatever it is, the most significant thing is to be confident enough.